Women can be hard to read sometimes. You can be left on edge, unsure whether she likes you or not. Likewise, you may be left clueless when it comes to the next step. What should be the next move? What can she be expecting?
Good thing there are sure-fire ways in catching the attention of your dream girl. And no, these do not involve you spending extravagantly on a grand dinner and night out. These tips do not have to cost a thing.
PAY attention
Some guys like to play it cool, thinking that the “bad boy” image will get their girl to notice them. While this will work on some women, most prefer to get down to reality. Most women want a guy who’s interested in them, not just physically, but emotionally and intellectually as well. You can only show this through sincere interaction with your dream girl. Talk to her. Ask her to tell you her stories and be really interested.
This means you have to listen, not just hear. It is obvious if a guy just hears what the woman says but not really listen. A listening guy will have follow-up questions. This guy will comment and will be sympathetic. This guy will lean in attentively, and will respond verbally and through his expressions.
INVEST in yourself
Take it from Barney of “How I Met Your Mother.” Suit up! And no, you don’t really have to look as dapper and rich as Barney. Be yourself and wear comfortable clothes that fit the occasion. But, you have to make yourself presentable. Take the time to look your best. After all, you are on a date and not on a night out with your best buds. You need to look good for your dream girl.
SPEND time
You may be able to easily spend money on someone or lavish them with gifts. But in fact, the most appreciated and probably hardest to give is time. With so much to do in this fast-paced world, you muster as much time as you can on a lot of chores and duties. That’s alright. That’s understandable. But when it comes to impressing the girl of your dreams, you need to spend time with her – quality time. Don’t be in a hurry when you are on a date with her. Relish the food, ambience, and the fact that you are with her. Don’t rush her into anything either. Time allows you to get to know each other better.